April 16, 2001
Why do so many of

Why do so many of us use the expression "Take care of yourself" as an expression of concern/friendship/sympathy, etc.? That is, I suppose I know what we mean by the phrase, but upon reflection, isn't one really insinuating that the other party had better take care of him/herself because we aren't going to? Or else it's a subtle criticism -- you, sir or madam, are incapable of proper self-monitoring! Shape up!

Even more baffling is my habitual use of the phrase "Take care" or the more fatuous "Take care now!" which I hear, horribly, popping out of my mouth on the occaision of all sorts of partings. What's that about? "Bye now! Proceed with caution! Life is full of uncertainties! Danger lurks!"

I know what you're thinking...he's off his nut with this. Well, fine. We'll talk later. You take care now!

Posted by B T at April 16, 2001 11:06 AM